opinion about the punishment at home

Opinion about the punishment at home

My view about punishments is not to take them as wrong, should be handled as a measure or strategy to help establish discipline and good behavior of children at home and outside it.

Punishments accompanied by physical aggression tend to make children focus their anger on their parents and lose affection attributing blame them and not take responsibility for their mistakes.

The Parents should not be left dominated by anger, rage or bad temper, because it can be too exaggerated and can be very critical for the child.

First you have to explain the importance and benefits of obeying or ignoring, for example define the time to go to bed, perform the tasks assigned by the teacher.

Natural consequences let children learn about the consequences of their actions or behaviors, they feel nothing like the ability to use the experiences and the information to make future decisions and not repeat mistakes.

Logical consequences help children to learn from their mistakes because they are the direct result of the child's behavior.

Conclusion

One important thing for children is to reward them when they avoid their own punishments or consequences of their actions.

For parents it is recommended to define time as the deadline for the consequences and demonstrate safety before them, so respect and authority is maintained.

By Alonso Arguello